Two winters ago, Greg mentioned buying a pontoon boat for the family. He has had boats since long before I came into his life. When we first started dating, he had a killer bass boat. Jacob has always been a fairly calm (at least physically) and cautious child, and I never thought twice about taking him out on the water. He was only 2 when he went on his first boat ride, and he's been fishing and boating ever since. Andrew, on the other hand, is the complete opposite of Jacob. He's active, agile and adventurous. Jacob takes serious convincing to take even the simplest risk, but Andrew thrives on excitement. He's a climber and a jumper. While I didn't worry about taking Jake on the water, you can see why I would have misgivings about Andrew. Greg kept saying, "You'll love it! It'll be so much fun for the family." But all I could envision was me playing referee for 8 hours straight, trying to keep Andrew from jumping ship, and then dealing with the tantrums which would inevitably ensue from thwarting his escapades. I wasn't exactly against the pontoon boat, but I wasn't necessarily for it either. Greg looked around a little and found a boat that was reasonably priced, but we dragged our feet and someone else scooped it up before we did. He was disappointed, but we kind of forgot about the whole pontoon boat for a while...
...Until this spring when one of my friends on Facebook posted photos of her family's new pontoon boat. Greg became afflicted with what my dad calls the "bee in your bonnet syndrome." If you have a bee in your bonnet, you'll do anything and everything possible to get it out, ASAP. He had to get the pontoon boat idea out of his head, and the only way to do that was to buy a pontoon boat. He looked around and found one relatively quickly. By April, Greg and my father-in-law had gone together to buy our boat. I'll admit, I was still a little skeptical because of Andrew, but 18 months makes a huge difference in the life of a toddler/pre-schooler. Andrew is still my Mr.Adventure, but he has calmed down quite a bit since this time last year. I was much more willing to give it a try this summer than I was last summer.
I'll be the first to admit that Greg was 100% right. We love it. The boys love it. I love it. Since the end of May, we have been out on the boat almost every opportunity we get. The boys don't fuss about how long we have been out. They don't get bored. They swim, snack, fish and chill. Even their fighting is less when we are on the water (not eradicated, but less for sure!) Andrew is great on the boat. He'll even lay down on the seat and take a nap mid-day! We have taken the kids out often, taken some friends and family out, and we were amazingly able to sneak away by ourselves one day this week too! And yes, we have plans actually written down on the calendar to take other people out! Our schedules are so busy, if we don't plan it, it won't happen, and we don't want any opportunities to pass us by!
Honestly, I think time elapses faster on the boat than anywhere else. For our first trip out, I was wary about going at 9 in the morning and not coming home until 4 in the afternoon. That's a long time to be on a 20 foot boat....or so I thought! Now, 9 seems late, and 4 comes too quickly. Anyone who has gone out with us can attest to the fact that evening sneaks up on you. Before you know it, it's dusk when you feel like you just ate breakfast! I'm really sad to go back to work full time in two weeks, because it's going to significantly cut down on our boating time. I used to think that taking us out on the boat was a lot of work for Greg. He always insisted that it was not, that he enjoyed it, and that time on the boat was anything but work. While I always believed that he was sincere in his sentiment, I still felt bad that he had to do so much to get everything ready, cart us around, bow to our every whim, then clean everything up and put it all away. Spending so much time on the boat the last two months has given me a different perspective. I understand now that for him, it isn't really work when you love it so much. We truly enjoy just being out in the open air, talking about everything and nothing at all, relaxing. There's nothing pressing down on you on the water, nothing frustrating, no irritations. Time spent with family and friends without the distraction of electronics, without the stresses of everyday life is irreplaceable. I'm so glad that we have the opportunity to soak up as much sun, water and camaraderie as possible. It's not just fun, it's a true gift, and one we feel blessed to share.
Fishing, Greg's true calling in life.
I'm learning to drive the boat. I figure, if I'm going to be out on it all the time, I may as well learn to operate it. I don't think I'll ever be able to help hitch it up or tow it on the truck, but I can drive it on the lake, help with launching, docking and unfastening/fastening the covers and, as my lovely neighbor calls it, the "afimaby." (It's really called a bimini, but she has a significant mental block with that word!)
Monster carp at the marina
"Boys, don't go too close to those people. We don't know who they are!"


























